However, he also mentioned that “It is not the amount of money that really matters but rather problems arise if the parents do not want to negotiate that amount”. 8). His task consisted of coming up with a set of categories, and then to analyze his text again in order to find out how many instances fall into that category (Dominik, 2007, p.53). Then, bridewealth was to be returned to the family of the groom. Many advantages enumerated by the respondents have already been referred to. The amount of bridewealth depended upon a number of factors such as: the general economic situation of the country, financial ability of the groom and his family, beauty, character and education of the bride. Omari, T. (1960). Bridewealth was given in terms of livestock and money. These forms of attire are worn to integrate traditional African dress with modernized religious weddings. African weddings often consist of modern Islamic/Christian ceremonies whilst intertwining traditional African beliefs and practices. The West African people of Ghana participate in marital customs that differ greatly from many other African countries. Many African communities believe marriage is primarily about procreation and providing for children as this is seen as the foundation of society. It bound two individuals, their families and even their communities. To most African populations, clothing is a significant and important part of the engagement ceremony and the religious marriage ceremony. Catholic African communities most commonly dress in western wedding attire (white dress for women and a suit for men) for the religious ceremony and will utilize their communities’ traditional attire for other phases of the marriage process. The interest of the boy in marrying a girl would be the first step in the process of paying bridewealth. It’s especially widespread throughout sub-Saharan Africa and parts of Asia. The father of the bride was the one who received bridewealth. One respondent said that “a lot can be asked. Unless one married upon attaining the right age, one stood no chance of being counted as an adult. It provided the wife with the right to own the property in her new community, and it gave a right to be buried in the land of her husband or her husband’s clan. Examples of traditional marriage customs within Africa can be seen when analyzing the Yoruba people of Nigeria. App.#, no. [10] This form of relationship emphasizes the importance of marriage towards social stability and minimizes the significance of the bond between the husband and wife. Abwanda confirmed that point stressing that “according to Luo customary law, bridewealth is what really seals a marriage contract and without it there is no marriage in the Luo custom (2004, p. 9). Journal of Social Sciences and Public Affairs, 4(1), 94-104. African marriage is a family matter, and binds two families in a lasting relationship, that anthropologists call affinity. Interviews were conducted in English and Swahili. This point was also stressed by Waruta (2005, p. 107). These reflections seemed the most important when reflecting upon the value and relevance of bridewealth. However, if they saw it in terms of acquiring wealth, a high amount, difficult to pay, could be quoted by them (cf. Main forms of marriage in Africa: Monogamy (serial monogamy) Polygamy: polygyny – extremely common One man with two or more wives at the same time. Ngubane, H, (1987), The consequences for women of marriage payments in a society with patrilineal descent’, In Parkins, D. and Nyamwaya, D (Eds). She defined bridewealth as something “like a present for the parents of the girl”. People may then be involved with more partners and as a result it may contribute to the spread of AIDS. When the bridewealth was given, most of it would go to the father. He defined it as a ‘token given to the parents of the girl for migrating from her family to start another one’. It is common for the families to choose a colour to abide to in their dress code. However if children were born, bridewealth is not to be returned. Bridewealth (“nyombo” in Luo) was defined by her as“a token given to the parents of the wife as a sign of respect, a sign of reward for bringing up the girl”. As a result, it could be argued that in some cases bridewealth indirectly contributes to the increase of sexual immorality and spread of HIV/AIDS. In that regard, one could conclude that paying bridewealth could be seen also a sacred duty. App.#, no. The traditional beliefs of the Yoruba share some similarities with traditional Catholic marriages, such as the wife being expected to remain a virgin until she is married. 4). 05.02.09. Marriage was a sacred duty, wanted by God to promote the community. Bridewealth (“nyombo” in Luo) was defined by her as. He could use it for a variety of purposes. Some mentioned practical ways of accommodating the practice due to the difficult economic conditions that affect many young people. This is where the bride inherits gifts from her family with the purpose of using them within her new home. App.#, no. Among them there were 8 women and 5 men. App.#, no. Bridewealth was a crucial element in marriage negotiations. The man was 32 years old and his wife was 24. Worldmark Encyclopedia of Religious Practices: Religions and denominations. And bridewealth was an integral, and in most cases indispensable, part of marriage process (Mbiti, 1975, p. 107, Magesa, 1997, p. 122, Waruta, 2005, p. 102). App.#, no. The Kisii couple was married for 1 year, the Taita couple for 17. It was given to her because she would be the one being most affected by her daughter being taken away from her. App.#, no. 2). Bridewealth cements marriage and it gives right to ownership, inheritance and other claims such as a place of burial of the woman and of children. The researcher wants to focus on the role that bridewealth plays among selected members of Luo community, who are married or cohabiting together in the area of Nairobi. The wedding is an exceptionally respected tradition within Africa due to their deeply rooted appreciation for the notion of family. One of them was related to the increasing role of money as the favorite means of paying bridewealth. Bridewealth was usually paid in form of livestock, especially the cattle, foodstuff and money (Taylor, 1963, p. 72). [10], Within Ghana, it is common for the maternal uncle to pay dowry. It allowed him to understand better an important element of African culture and how it affects daily lives of modern Nairobi residents from the Luo community. She defined bridewealth. Marital commitment articulates one’s conviction about the importance of family life and of procreation. If he could afford, he would be the main contributor to pay bridewealth. Also, the young may experience other problems related to living in such unions, e.g. It points out to a certain dichotonomy between the traditional understanding and the practice of bridewealth; The respondents believed that the practice of bridewealth would continue. Two respondents mentioned that “the father of the groom was supposed to provide at least one cow for bridewealth of his son. They were married for a year. In Sub-Saharan Africa where land was abundant and there were few or no domesticated animals, manual labor was more valuable than capital, and therefore bridewealth dominated. Kithinji asserted that “In Kenya today, dowry has almost been completely commercialized. Hence, bridewealth was contributing to wives staying in some abusive relationships; If the parents cannot agree about bridewealth, the young may have to wait till the parents are dead to formalize their relationship. It was never a solitary affair. Polyandry (multiple husbands) is very rare in Africa – e.g., Lele. All three sources confirm that the practice of bridewealth exists and is relevant in life of people belonging to Luo community. It was a traditional way of disciplining people to pay it. The diversity of traditional beliefs throughout the country leads to enormous diversity among African communities. 7); Bridewealth was a means of binding individuals and communities/ethnic groups together. The researcher interviewed 13 people from the Luo community. It still remains a relevant practice especially to parents whose children want to marry. App.#, no. App.#, no. Prof Achola stressed that marriage was a means of achieving companionship, to get wealth, to have children, to be immortalized as ancestors and to fulfill God’s will. Overall the polygamy in Africa is a very common practice that you are going to find all over Africa, but it tends to be more popular especially in the West African countries. Marriage would be recognized as such only after the bridewealth has been given” (cf. A 29 years old married Luo lady was interviewed. 90% of surveyed students disagreed with this practice, believing the father should pay the dowry and pay for the costs of the child (such as education). Usually it would be used for school fees, to pay bridewealth for his other sons, to pay his debts and to distribute it among other family members, especially the ones who were poor. 2013). On the part of the groom (“or”) the following could participate in it: elders from the family, the father, uncles and friends. As a recommendation, the researcher would suggest to make a further inquiry into the modern practice of bridewealth in order to find new ways of fulfilling that still relevant cultural obligation. It was a means of binding not only two communities/ethnic groups but also of strengthening inner connection within one community. It was “the most responsible phase in life” (Mbiti, 1975, p. 104). 31.01.09. Both groups saw bridewealth and polygyny as instruments of male domination and sym-bols of women's inferior status. [10] The married couple would have fairly minimal interaction with one another, to such an extent that the wife would often refer to her husband as the father of her sons name. 11). Inability to pay bridewealth among some young people was a main factor to elope and to live together in unions that were not traditionally recognized as marriages. 11). Busieka, G. (2004), “The meaning of bride wealth in traditional African marriage”, In Achola, P (Ed). 14). American Ethnologist, 5(2), 241-262. Bridewealth was traditionally seen as a sign of one’s commitment. Also the bridewealth received for his sister could be used. Secondly, animals were used in a number of rituals and celebrations. If bridewealth was returned, the marriage union was annulled, especially when the lady was found to be barren. 339-361, Posel, D., & Rudwick, S. (2014). Some would elope. The practice of bridewealth was a means of ensuring the survival of the kinship, establishing very strong bonds between individuals and families coming from different clans, recognizing and legitimizing the marriage and ensuring a legal status of children born in that union and their right to inheritance (Kam, 2004, p. 4, Sakubu, 2003, p. 7). Keeping in mind the small scope of this project, the researcher decided to use some elements of descriptive statistics in order to provide simple summaries of the findings. All activities were geared towards achieving that goal. It also has ‘eternal’ consequences based on African beliefs in afterlife. In general, for the parents of the girl, payment of bridewealth was a sign of respect on the side of the groom and his family. Bought and Bound: Bridewealth and Gender Inequality in Africa Abstract In this paper we turn to the norm of reciprocity to explore gender inequality in Africa. App.#, no. App.#, no. It shows that traditional cultural practices continue exercising an impact in spite of modern factors; There is a continuity and disruption in the practice of bridewealth. These new ways would comprise the traditional understanding of bridewealth and take into account difficult life conditions of many young people in Nairobi that create an obstacle or make it even impossible to fulfill it. App.#, no. 275-293). App.#, no. Marriage ceremonies throughout Africa vary greatly depending on the faith of the individuals. Bikorwomuhangi (2005, p. 4) claimed that “bridewealth became commercialized and it is like it has degenerated into commodity exchange”. App.#, no. She defined bridewealth as a “traditional thing, a token of thanksgiving for raising her up, and educating the girl, a way of saying thank you”. In the traditional society, people would live in villages and would usually have livestock to use to pay bridewealth. Various authors referred to in the literature review seemed to suggest that the practice of bridewealth would continue in spite of its above mentioned disadvantages and socio-cultural changes taking place, especially in modern cities such like Nairobi. Polygamy is heavily integrated into traditional Ghanaian marriage. Consent money (“ayie”) was given to the mother and other family members involved in the marriage negotiations. 10). It contributed to the spread of promiscuity and HIV/AIDS. It brings shame” (cf. They would go to visit the family of the groom and would participate in choosing those who would be sent to the bride’s family to negotiate. Due to Africa's expansive diversity, marriages within the continent are not limited to previously mentioned forms of marriage. If the groom himself cannot afford to pay bridewealth, his parents, family and friends would contribute. 2 Luo men were interviewed: one was 43 years old, the other was 54 years old. The respondent stressed that if one did not pay bridewealth for his wife, he could not get it for his daughter. Marriage to the Yoruba was not focused on love but rather on structure and order. The mother of the bride was the one to receive “ayie” (consent money). if bridewealth was completed or some. The researcher is interested in acquiring knowledge about bridewealth among Luo urban dwellers of Nairobi. There is a growing trend among African communities where wedding ceremonies and marriage processes are blending traditional customs with modern practices. Families are of supreme importance in Africa, and the bridewealth payment cements this relationship. (1978). As a result, the young could elope or the future husband would have to take loans to be able to pay for bridewealth. It suggests that the one function of bridewealth common to African societies is the legitimation of marriage, a function that enhances rather than diminishes the status of women in the African context. Another respondent said that it was “ongoing, you keep contributing. App.#, no. The changes taking place in the modern society challenge the practice. The parents of the girl were the ones to agree on the amount of bridewealth to be paid. App.#, no. Ngubane (1987) talked about disadvantages of ‘monetisation’ of bridewealth such as the transaction becoming privatized, individualized, and commercialized. Bridewealth seemed to be an indispensable condition of marriage. If the main reason for a couple to stay in such a relationship is the high amount of bridewealth, it would seem that bridewealth contributes indirectly to creating some unstable relationships. [2] It is common practice in Africa to combine practices of major religions with local religious traditions. Generalizations based on such a number may not reflect the beliefs of the Luo community as such. Prof Achola mentioned that once the parents of the boy went to visit the parents of the girl, there was a process of negotiation. Traditional customs relevant to the specific community are performed during this engagement ceremony, while the more modern marital customs will be performed at the religious wedding ceremony. App.#, no. Within many African communities, such as Nigerian ethnic groups, the engagement is where the traditional practices are performed. 8). The researcher set out to investigate various facades of the practice of bridewealth. River Estate. Some respondents could not complete bridewealth because they were not able to save due to hard economic conditions facing many Kenyans. Bibliography of africa Count : 584 Bridewealth Project Africa Bibliography "L'option de la voie juridique". Women are not bought and sold, though bridewealth may come close to this as a result of the introduction of money, and the bridegroom being assessed according to his capacity to pay”. One person summarized it in the following way: “Education, Christianity, urbanization and westernization diminish the role of bridewealth, though it is still important – the culture is still an underlying idea in one’s head” (cf. App.#, no. Due to the sheer size and diversity of Africa, wedding customs vary greatly not just between countries but between local communities. Thirdly, animals served as evidence that bridewealth was paid. 24.01.09. Such an approach allowed the researcher to ask questions answers to which were not necessarily easy to quantify. Reflection on an African Traditional Marriage System. Comparative anthropology has shown that bridewealth is more likely to be paid amongst populations whose main mode of food getting system is horticulture or pastoralism. Bridewealth was an integral part of marriage process (Mbiti, 1975, p. 107, Magesa, 1997, p. 122, Warura, 2005, p. 102). A curse could also result from breaking certain taboos around bridewealth, like somebody eating the chicken prepared for the groom (cf. The study also revealed that 73% of young people surveyed believe that polygamy is an outdated process. Inability to pay bridewealth was the main reason of such a situation. These days, people still use cows and goats but also money. Africans/Ghanaians, love which is vital in marriage in the Western societies means the state of meeting material needs of children, parents, spouse and close relatives while success is identified to include marriage, children, social recognition and contribution to society (Annabella et al., 2018). 2). A good wife is the best investment any man can ever make. This is a gift from the groom or his family to the bride's family, often in livestock but sometimes in … African customs create a rich culture. Culturally, the groom was always ‘bound’ by bridewealth – it was an ongoing process that meant, using the words of one respondent, “everlasting indebtedness” (cf. It was a means of preserving and strengthening the community as a whole, and a practical way of ensuring that the community would survive; These traditions continue to play a very important role in the lives of urban Luo dwellers. Solanke, S., Ayodabo, S. (2017). They are especially visible during the rites of passage. 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